Adversity & Setbacks
Next man up. You have heard it before. It gets said so often it almost does not mean anything anymore.
But this time it is not a slogan. This time someone you play alongside is sitting out and someone in this room has to take what was theirs and carry it. And the weight of that is real.
So before we talk about what this means for rotations and minutes and game plans, let us talk about what it actually means to step into the spot someone else had to leave.
Read both passages slowly — both deserve a breath after them.
"Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up."
Ecclesiastes 4:9–10 — NIVAnd then this one:
"Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ."
Galatians 6:2 — NIVLet those sit for a second before you move.
When someone steps into a role that was not theirs, there is a temptation to make it about themselves. To prove something. To finally get the minutes they have been waiting for and show everyone what they can do.
That instinct is not entirely wrong. But it is incomplete. And if it is the only thing driving you, you are going to play tight, you are going to play for the crowd, and you are going to play for the wrong reason.
The most powerful version of next man up is not about you. It is about the person who cannot play.
When you take the court or the field and fill that spot, you are not just filling a position. You are carrying something for someone. Every rep you give, every play you make, every possession you refuse to give up on is a way of saying: I see what you built here, and I am not going to let it go to waste while you are out.
Ecclesiastes says two are better than one because if one falls, the other can help them up. Right now your teammate has fallen and you cannot help them up physically. You cannot get them back on the floor. But you can play in a way that honors what they would have brought. You can be the one who picks up what they had to put down.
Galatians says carry each other's burdens. This is one of the ways that happens in a team sport. It does not always look like a conversation or a prayer or a word of encouragement. Sometimes it looks like a player who was third on the depth chart showing up for a week like they have been preparing for this their whole career. Because they have. And now is when it matters.
Here is what that player on the bench needs from you. They do not need pity. They do not need you to look over at them after every play to check if they are watching. They need you to compete so hard and so well that when they come back, they are coming back to something worth coming back to.
Play for them. Not for their approval. For them.
That is what next man up actually means.
The most powerful version of next man up is not about you. It is about the person who cannot play. Every rep you give is a way of saying: I see what you built here, and I am not going to let it go to waste while you are out.
If your teammate on the bench could hear everything you say and see everything you do in practice this week, what would you want them to take away from watching you?
Let this sit. The best answers to this question are the ones that come after a few seconds of actual thought, not the first thing that comes to mind.
Pick it up. Carry it well. They are watching.